Unequal

Don’t date anyone who has to tolerate you, force conversation or feel obligated to spend time with you. These things should be a PLEASURE not a burden. This also applies to platonic relationships, those can be narcissistic as well. You are not some orphan! If you’ve been born again, you’ve been ACCEPTED into the Beloved. God loves you and will send folk who celebrate you and not merely tolerate you. 

At the first sign of a mistreatment from ANYONE, you’ve been given a choice. You can either leave yourself with your dignity in tact or be asked to leave with no dignity and a pound of heartache to boot. Don’t you stand by and allow someone you settled for to lower your self esteem. You can do better and they KNOW it! 

Relationships are JUST as easy as they were in grade school. Back in the day we knew if a boy liked us, because it was obvious! EVERYONE even the teachers knew it! We’ve made so many exceptions and rules that things right in front of our face we don’t believe. We have to check the blogs and Reddit to see what his neglect means. Then we wanna help counsel or heal him. Ma’am, none of that is necessary, if he likes you, YOU KNOW IT. What he says AND does go hand and hand. If he is doing one thing and saying another, he’s a LIAR and you my dear deserve better than a common liar. If you EXPECT more, you will get more. What you settle for is the most you’ll EVER have. If that man isn’t intentional bout you, you be intentional about cutting him out of your life.